The most important factor in healthy ageing is a genuine ability to enjoy what ever you are doing to the level of having “fun”. Using that word deliberately embraces your youth which seems to be the only time an mature adult was “eligible” for fun.
I can concur on some activities as being a bit risky for “fun” as an adult because the risk of life, limb, scandal on a bad day could bring consequences that will definitely compromise enjoying the rest of your life.
That said , Dr. Papa set a standard for adult “fun” by the elements of his life that fulfilled his definition of enjoyable. Number one on the standard list is Sex. This wonderful opportunity to share each other, express all the things and feelings expressed non verbally …was meant to be enjoyed . As often as possible without ever doubting your entitlement and realizing above all that making love is not a possession of youth at any level.
It also provides the opportunity to perpetuate future lives…Everybody has a major moment in deciding what Sex is to them…..but as often as you can have this fun….It will keep you connected to your youth….?
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