Friends with Benefits

Time is what brings change. Word usage is what defines the change that has occurred. Some changes are merely the “new” way of describing a very old practice or religion.The change that comes to focus today is coitus…..intercourse…..having sex…doing the happy-happy….! Never heard that last one I bet.

Most living creatures are active  participants at some point in their lives in this “necessary pleasure” because the continued existence of said species seemed to depend on this union.

In this moment  I would like to briefly shine the light on humans….yes ,us,   we do speak the verbal word and in many languages.

Back in the day the act of sexual union was often expressed a privilege of declared couples. In love in some way for sure, they tried to seemingly align themselves before proceding to …marriage or living together or “shacking up”. Not at all respectable in a good christian view..Other cultures and beliefs were judged and disposed of as …..”hell Bent”..eventually with other hazards on the trip there.

Words like Adultery, preceded “cheating”..Questions and stories of “lost virginity” abound in all folklore .  Nothing good was supposed to happen from this “casual use ” of such a sacred joy….

Was there a phrase for “FB” in those days or dared anyone talk about their “FWB” in the ..olden days? Where is the love?..Love made it better didn’t it?

Seems an enormous amount of  unnecessary complications could have been missed if the word usage was as flexible or available….or times had changed faster…

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